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Andrew Kotulak Shares Strategies on Finding Your Purpose and Living Your Dreams.
The Function of Great Leadership is to create more Leaders, not more Followers.
If you gave 100 people equal opportunities such as training, circumstances and money their outcomes would be completely different. 99 would have varying levels of success; Only 1 of these people would become a great leader. So what makes a great leader?
Every great leader, no matter how successful, at some point was a great follower. It is a natural progression.
Most people think that what makes a great leader is power and influence. While these attributes are necessary and there are so many more, they are simply a result of what made this leader great in the first place: The ability to follow and make decisions.
Great Leaders will take advantage of the opportunities and not squander them away. They follow wise instruction, not balk at it or question it. They make decisions based on Belief: They already know what they want their final outcome to be. Then they stay committed to this outcome, knowing there is always a way to make it happen. .
Great leaders follow because they can make powerful decisions without knowing every step of how they are going to get to the final outcome. They are more interested in creating change than waiting for other to remove the obstacles in their lives.
Let’s say I wanted to partner with you in business. Up front investment is 2 months salary. In addition, you must pay for training that could take anywhere from 2 months to 3 years, maybe longer. At the end of training, I welcome you to my business with a grand ceremony costing thousands and thousands of dollars. I can’t promise you success in your business, you must figure it out on your own. By the way, the commitment to me is 50+ years and if you try to back out It will cost you half of everything you own.
Sound familiar?
When you get married and say your vows, you are essentially making a 50+year commitment. You really have NO CLUE what the next 50 years are going to bring. If part of getting married was a class where someone could show exactly what the next 50 years will bring and the changes that will occur, my guess is there would be less marriages. We don’t stay cute forever. Life changes things.
Marriage can be a gamble. If you choose the wrong partner, invest your time in the wrong activities and do not take the time and effort needed to sustain the marriage, it will fail.
Yet thousands get married every day. They are following belief: tradition and family values, even though the ultimate outcome is unknown.
A decision to go into business is no different. There are many incredible turnkey businesses that are basically a follow the leader game. You make the upfront investment in your future, and then follow a step by step process to build your business. All the systems, training, and products are already in place. The REAL work is already done.
Certainty and Belief drive your behavior. How hard would you work if you knew it would end up in success? Being mentored by a leader that has been there, done that means they already know the ropes, all you have to do is FOLLOW. You benefit from their mistakes. This leverage can catapult you to success.
Now, no one can guarantee your personal success, after all it is up to you. You can be handed the keys to a car, but if you don’t learn to drive it will do you no good. Do what great leaders do and follow other great leaders. They already know what it takes to be successful.
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In his book The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow YouJohn Maxwell presented the idea that leadership can be described as a set of principles that can be learned and applied. When practices align with these principles, leadership is effective.
The term Level 5 Leader comes from Jim Collins, and was first introduced in an article that he wrote for the Harvard Business Review, entitled Level 5 Leadership: The Triumph of Humility and Fierce Resolve. The idea was expanded and fully explained in his book Good to Great
You can read about the concept of a Level 5 Leader on Jim’s website.
"By 1980 I will be the best known oriental movie star in the United States and will have secured $10 million dollars. And in return I will give the very best acting I can possibly give every single time I am in front of the camera and I will live in peace and harmony"
The Stay-At-Home Mom:
It’s challenging enough to survive on two incomes in this day and age. When the difficult (and of course rewarding) decision is made to stay at home with your children, what can you do to fill the income void in your household?
Your children are the most important things in the world to you. They deserve your full attention and you have gladly chosen to stay home and care for them. You know that you have made the right decision.
Your choice to be a stay at home mother has come with a price though. Careful budgeting alone cannot offset that missing second income. Yes, you and your husband are getting by and your family is enjoying quality time together, but you have sacrificed income and benefits to raise your children.
Depending on your profession, your financial sacrifice can be very significant after a few years. In Ann Crittenden's book The Price of Motherhood: Why the Most Important Job in the World is Still the Least Valued, she calculated that a couple that once earned over $80,000 annually could lose over $1 million dollars in lifetime earnings after they have a child and the woman leaves work and stays at home.
Your retirement is in jeopardy as well.
No matter what level your previous earnings were, there are long term consequences on your finances for the years spent raising children instead of earning a paycheck.
Aside from salary, you are not earning any pension benefits from an employer or medical insurance, both of which are quite valuable.
And few women when they decide to stay home consider that they will cease to accrue any social security benefits from the federal government. No income for you means that your benefit rating with social security is stagnating.
It's a shame that there has to be such a cost for you to stay at home with your children.
You certainly value your work as a mom. It's nice having time to nurture your children's education and interests. You even get to have fun, and you do not envy the scheduling hassles that working mothers face as they juggle job commitments and children's appointments.
You are not alone either. More women are deciding to leave the career track and stay at home with their children. There is a growing trend for families to decide to make it with only one person working outside the home. A report from the U.S. Census Bureau in 2001 showed that in 1998 59% of mothers with infants worked at a full time job, but that had dropped to 55% in 2000, only 2 years later. The appeal of actually being the one to raise your children is undeniable and more families are pursuing this important goal.
Being a stay at home mom has many positive points, but you still miss being able to
earn an income. You want to continue developing your skills and creativity. Maintaining your professional skills that you worked hard to get before motherhood nags at the back of your mind. You wish you had a way to transform your time into money without compromising your need to be at home.
You can enjoy the security of a second income again.
There is a revolution starting in our society. People are deciding that they don't want
to struggle through a traffic jam every day and spend 10 hours at an office away
from their families in order to live. It's time for you to start learning how
people are earning a comfortable living from their homes. You can start a home
based business, raise your children, and have a profitable professional existence
at the same time.
Bringing in a second income and avoiding childcare costs would be doubly profitable. Think of all the important things in your financial life that you won't have to put off anymore.
After starting your home based business you won't have to scrimp and save so much. Yes,you will still bargain hunt because it's smart and you're good at it, but you won't have to feel guilty about that occasional dinner out.
There is no arguing that the work you do as a mother is exceedingly valuable.
The salary research company Salary.com even attempted to calculate what a salary for a stay at home mother should be. After factoring in everything from childcare, transportation services, accounting, laundry, cooking, management, and much more, Salary.com came up with a figure of over $130,000 a year. This sounds like a lot but it was based on a 100 hour work week.
As nice as it is to know that your work as a mother is worth six figures, there is no salary fairy out there that is magically going to start writing you checks. You need to take action and earn money your own way. The way to do this is with your own home based business. As your own boss, you will be able to integrate earning an income into your other valuable and important duties.
With the income from your home based business, you will be able to enjoy the benefits of financial security. You won't have to worry so much if your husband loses his job. With your business income you could even give him the freedom to pursue a career change that he has been dreaming of.
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